Not every time pounding like fufu
As far as pop-culture is concerned, all you need to satisfy your woman is to dramatically swept her off her feet, pin her on a table and rip off her clothes. It’s a typical trope in for sex scenes in movies but reality is a different matter. First of all, who will arrange all the things you’ve scattered after the deed is done? If you tear my cloth, what will I wear back home?
Unrealistic fantasies aside, experience will teach you that what works for some will turn others off. While some ladies enjoy being dominated, some want to be in control. There are women that want to be spanked and others that will give you gbas gbos if you try it. In other words, different strokes (*wink*) for different folks.
Nevertheless, there are basic practices and bedroom etiquette that will contribute to adequately satisfying any woman. Check them out below:
1. PLAY GOOD MUSIC
You think this is cliche? You are wrong, nobody will say no to a good sex playlist. Take your time to select songs that set the right vibe. Please, no woman wants to hear “Our government bad o” or “Ekwueme” while trying to cum.
2. DO NOT PRESSURE HER
Do not follow Brighto’s advice to apply pressure, you’ll only end up with a woman pretending to cum so she can hear word. Don’t say things like “I’ll make you cum 5 times” or “are you cuming?” because pressure is always a turn off. In fact, I can feel myself drying up from just reading about it.
3. PAY ATTENTION
An unspoken word is enough for the wise. Look out for those moments when her facial expression or moans are different. Focusing on the things that you see her particularly enjoy will lead you to the jackpot. Also, if you see you’ve found the right spot to hit, stay there! Switching up your rhythm just as she’s about to see stars will bring her crashing back to earth.
4. UNDERSTAND THE ATMOSPHERE
Sometimes she just wants cuddling and intimacy, sometimes she wants it slow, sensual and loving while other times, she’s looking for a rigorous workout. Before you progress into action, understanding her mood and wants will ensure maximum pleasure for the both of you.
5. BE SPONTANEOUS
The ability to improvise and improve every time is something every woman will appreciate. It can get boring very quickly, when you always know exactly what your partner is about to do in bed. You too, reason it. She knows that once you hold her tight, you will tell her to turn over, even if she is loudly moaning, she is not feeling you oga.
6. COMMUNICATE
Please, nobody is saying you should start talking about work when you are in the middle of action. Let’s be guided. Beforehand, you can ask about things you both want to try (including fetishes and boundaries) while during sex, you can tell her how much you’re enjoying it and check in with her that she’s comfortable and enjoying it too.
#SexLife is a lifestyle series bringing you sexual education and explicit confessions. While some people believe you can never satisfy a woman, we believe these tips are a good place to start.
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Very true! No. 2 is what I don’t like at all..when u try to pressure me, my man gats see this😂😂
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